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Cammy Sitting Shiva by Cary Gitter a stirring debut novel is an unflinching, darkly funny look at loss, family, and coming home is Now Available!

CAMMY SITTING SHIVA

A NOVEL 

“Wry humor, millennial charm, and New Jersey flavor make the messiness of grief real.” —Beth Kander, USA Today bestselling author of I Made It Out of Clay 

“A guide to giving yourself grace when it’s too hard to feel it all.” 

—Katie Runde, author of The Shore





This stirring debut novel is an unflinching, darkly funny look at loss, family, 

and coming home—perfect for fans of This Is Where I Leave You and 

Competitive Grieving

When Cy Adler dies, it’s a shock to everyone, especially his daughter, 

Cammy. Almost thirty, slightly aimless, and stuck in a basement apartment 

in Queens, she’s forced to return to River Hill, her one-square-mile New 

Jersey hometown, to sit shiva. Cammy’s fraught relationship with her 

mother, Beth, has never been easy. And now, with her beloved father gone, 

she would rather be anywhere but back in her childhood room, in a house 

filled with guests noshing on snacks and offering their condolences. So 

Cammy does whatever she can to make it through seven turbulent days of 

mourning. 

Amid getting stoned, reconnecting with her best friend and her high school 

crush, evading the rabbi, and spending a debauched night in Atlantic City, 

Cammy must reckon with her roots—with the place she fled for the glamour 

of New York, where she thought she belonged. But is she really any better 

off than those she left behind? While navigating the swirl of emotions that 

accompany grief, Cammy also uncovers hidden truths about her father, 

which lead her to doubt how well she knew the man she adored. Then again, 

does she even know herself? 

Fueled by wry, lively prose, Cammy Sitting Shiva is a deeply relatable fish 

out-of-water story, grappling with how it feels to be adrift and to find that a 

hard trip home may be what it takes to anchor you. 



Cary Gitter is the author of the plays The Steel Man, Gene & Gilda, and The Sabbath Girl, among others, and the co-creator of the musicals The Sabbath Girl and How My Grandparents Fell in Love. His work has appeared off-Broadway and at theaters around the country, and he is the playwright in-residence at Penguin Rep Theatre in Stony Point, New York. He grew up in New Jersey and now lives in Ann Arbor, Michigan, with his wife, Meghan, and their two dogs, Roo and Puck. This is his first novel. 

carygitter.com | IG: @carygitter 

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The audiobook for Cammy Sitting Shiva is produced by Spotify Audiobooks, Spotify's in-house publishing imprint, and available on Spotify or wherever you listen to audiobooks. 


 

Penguin Random House


DISTRIBUTED BY PENGUIN RANDOM HOUSE ISBN HC: 9798892422543 

ISBN TP: 9798892422789 

ISBN E: 9798892422550 

August 26, 2025 

PUBLICITY CONTACT: 

DULCE BOTELLO | CROOKED LANE BOOKS DULCE.BOTELLO@CROOKEDLANEBOOKS.COM 


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