Child Protection Behind Closed Doors: a behind-the-scenes look at CPS when the public is not watching by Jo Cooling Book Tour with Guest Post & Giveaway
CHILD PROTECTION BEHIND CLOSED DOORS
Jo Cooling
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GENRE: NonFiction
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BLURB:
In
the beginning, a tragic event started me on my journey to a destination and my
love for helping children of all ages and their families.
However,
what I was not prepared for was that the people who assisted me and paved the
way for my advancement in my chosen career in Child Protection were the same
people who tried to bring me down.
This
book will give you insight into what it is like to work in Child Protection. It
will show you the difficulties and sometimes dangers workers face on a daily
basis. Furthermore, the novel will also highlight the satisfaction you get when
you can assist a child and their family through a traumatic event.
My
career at Child Protection spanned nearly a decade, and during that time, I was
bullied by management. I observed management bully other workers; I was also
aware of workers consuming drugs, both outside work hours and during work
hours.
This
novel is a behind-the-scenes look at what really happens at Child Protection
when the public is not watching or listening.
Child
Protection is not an easy career path, but it can be a good job if you like
long hours, have a thick skin, keep your head down, keep your mouth shut, and
abide by everything that management wants you to do, even when you know it is
wrong or unfair.
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Because
this book contains content that is 18+ with various trigger warnings, we do not
feel excerpts will be applicable. It discusses Jo’s time as a child protection
worker and features substance abuse, sexual assault and various other
triggering topics.
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Guest Post:
The Psychological Cost of Protecting Children: Who Cares for the
Caregivers?
Every
day, Child Protection Workers Walk into some of the most challenging and
heartbreaking situations imaginable. Their mission is noble: to shield
vulnerable children from harm and provide them with a chance at a safe, loving
future. Yet, as they work tirelessly to protect others, a vital question often
goes unanswered: Who protects the protectors?
In
my book, Child Protection Behind Closed Doors, I delve into the
hidden realities of child protection work. Among these are the profound
psychological costs borne by those tasked with safeguarding children. I am
drawing from three stories in my book to illuminate this burden and address the
glaring lack of support for the very people who dedicate their lives to
protecting society’s most vulnerable.
The Invisible Burden of Child Protection
Child
Protection Workers are driven by a deep sense of purpose. They enter the field
determined to make a difference, often carrying the belief that their efforts
can help heal broken systems and lives. What they’re not always prepared for is
the emotional toll of witnessing relentless trauma, hearing the cries of
children in pain, and navigating bureaucracies that often hinder their ability
to make meaningful change.
This
work doesn’t just demand professional expertise—it demands an emotional and
mental investment. Workers frequently form deep attachments to the children
they’re trying to help, only to face situations where they cannot guarantee
their safety. Over time, the weight of these experiences accumulates, leaving
many workers emotionally depleted and, in some cases, traumatized.
Stories of the Human Cost
In Child
Protection Behind Closed Doors, I share real-life accounts that reveal the
personal toll this work takes.
The Systemic Failure
The
reality is stark: the system meant to protect children frequently neglects
those tasked with doing the protecting. Child Protection Workers face
overwhelming caseloads, insufficient funding, and the constant pressure of
making life-altering decisions.
Even
more troubling, there is little to no focus on the mental health of these
workers. Burnout is rampant, as are symptoms of secondary trauma, anxiety, and
depression. Many workers leave the field entirely, struggling to rebuild their
lives after years of unrelenting stress.
This
lack of support creates a vicious cycle. As experienced workers burn out and
leave, their knowledge and expertise are lost, leaving the system even weaker.
Those who remain are left to shoulder an even greater burden, perpetuating the
cycle.
The Fallout: Beyond the Job
For
many, leaving child protection work is not the end of the struggle. The
emotional scars can linger long after they’ve left the field. Some describe
feeling like they’ve lost their identity or their faith in humanity. Others
experience guilt for stepping away, even though staying would have jeopardized
their mental health.
The
implications of this fallout extend beyond the workers themselves. The loss of
seasoned professionals means that children in crisis may not receive the care
and advocacy they desperately need. The system cannot function effectively when
those within it are barely surviving.
A Call to Action
The
stories in Child Protection Behind Closed Doors are not just
cautionary tales—they’re a call to action. We need to recognize and address the
psychological toll of child protection work. This means providing adequate
mental health resources, reducing caseloads, and creating systems that
support—not hinder—workers in their mission.
Most
importantly, it means valuing the people who do this vital work. Their
resilience and dedication should not come at the cost of their mental health
and well-being.
If
we don’t care for those who protect our most vulnerable, who will step forward
to take their place?
Let’s
start the conversation, and let’s demand better—for the children, for the
workers, and for the future of child protection.
Here are just three stories that stand out:
She Had a Hissy Fit in Front of Her Colleagues
I noticed that one of my work colleagues,
whom I had worked with for a long time and also classed as a close friend, was
extremely upset. A couple of us approached Jennifer to see if she was all
right, but management came over and ushered us into our regular group meeting,
stating they would attend to Jennifer.
Two hours later, we came out of the
meeting, and I heard what sounded like a sobbing noise coming from one of the
interview rooms. I went to investigate and observed Jennifer on her own, and
she appeared worse than she had when I left her to go into the meeting. I told
her, “Grab your things, I am taking you to the doctor.”
There was a surgery one block away, so we
walked there. I booked her in and explained the current circumstances to the
receptionist. We didn’t have to wait long, but my work mobile phone kept
ringing, and I received text messages from management demanding I return to the
office. I ignored them and turned my mobile off. After Jennifer had been seen
by the doctor, who diagnosed her with having a mental breakdown, I informed
Jennifer that I would organise for her to be taken home.
When I returned to the office, management
demanded I come into the unit manager’s office and explain myself. I was
informed that there would be a formal warning for ignoring management
directions. I responded, “No, there won’t be. You had a duty of care to
Jennifer, and you failed to meet that duty of care; therefore, I took her to
the doctor.”
Management stated, “She had a hissy fit in
front of her work colleagues.” I responded, “A hissy fit? The doctor has
diagnosed her as having a mental breakdown, and the last time I looked, you’re
not qualified to make that assessment. The doctor trumps you.” Obviously, I did
not receive a formal warning, and Jennifer never returned to Child Protection.
I caught up with Jennifer and a couple of
other people who used to work at Child Protection, and we got talking about the
lack of support Child Protection offers to ‘some’ workers. I emphasise the word
‘some.’ Keep reading for the story that will explain what I mean about Child
Protection singling out workers based on whether they will assist your career
or try their hardest to terminate it.
When you are trodden on and held down,
turn to the
people who will hold out their hand and help you stand up.
Management Ordered My Colleagues Not to Communicate with Me
Just a little update on my journey. I
had my first epileptic seizure in June 2009, when I returned to work after
being off for three months. I worked for a further three years before I had
another seizure and left Child Protection on medical leave in 2012.
Back to the story. When my
father passed away, we had a group family photo taken at the wake; this photo
was put on the internet. A work colleague found the photo and reached out. I
spoke with Lee-Ann and we chatted for quite some time. During this telephone
conversation, Lee-Ann informed me that prior to her leaving Child Protection
and just after I left (for medical reasons), “Management directed workers to
cease all contact with you.” I said in disbelief, “They did what?” Lee-Ann
repeated,
“Management directed workers to cease
all contact with you.”
I couldn’t believe what I
was hearing. “Why would they do that?” Lee-
Ann replied, “Management didn’t say
why.”
I left work because I was
diagnosed with epilepsy, and I didn’t want to risk dropping a kid. Child
Protection might think they’re good, but giving someone epilepsy, they’re not
that good. “Did they think I was going to sue or something?” Lee-Ann said, “I
really don’t know.”
I was really angry when I
heard that. I was at my lowest point when I left work. Even though I was
technically still employed by Child Protection, I still felt like I had lost my
job, lost my independence because I could not drive, and my friends from work
(now I know why no one contacted me).
When
I was diagnosed with epilepsy, my whole life turned upside down. I couldn’t
have a shower unless someone was home. I couldn’t stand on a stool to get
something out of the cupboard. I wasn’t allowed to make a cup of tea in case I
spilt boiling water on myself. I was no longer allowed to cook. I know it
sounds drastic but I was having numerous seizures a week. On three occasions, I
stopped breathing. To
find out that Child Protection
deliberately added to my suffering, what type of management was running this
office? It appears as though they are heartless and the only thing, I can say
is karma is a bitch.
When I first left Child Protection, I was
on leave without pay. I regularly provided sick certificates. Even though deep
down, I knew I would not be able to return to Child Protection, I needed time
to process the changes that were happening to me. I was under a neurologist, a
doctor, a psychologist, and a social worker who all assisted me in coming to
terms with the changes I needed to make in order to survive.
I became quite emotionally unwell and, for
a period of time, would not leave the house; I was lucky that my social worker
would come and see me at my mum and dad’s house.
While I was dealing with my own issues, I
received a letter from the Child Protection Head Office, notifying me that I
had vacated my position and, therefore, my employment had been terminated. I
telephoned Head Office and spoke with the person who had written the letter. I
informed Sally that I provided regular sick certificates and that I was on
leave without pay. Sally informed me that she had been told that I just didn’t
turn up for work. Sally was not happy that she had been misled by management at
the Child Protection Frankston Office.
I posted Sally a copy of all the sick
certificates. I eventually put in my resignation. It wasn’t on the cards that I
was going to return to Child Protection; I just needed time to accept that the
job that I studied hard for and worked at for nearly a decade was something
that I could no longer do.
Thanks for all your support, Child
Protection, and yes, I am being a smart arse.
When someone holds all the power
and then kicks you while you are down,
find that inner strength to walk away and say,
‘I am in control.’
The only person who has the
right to judge you is you.
Child Protection Will Pay for This
There was an access support worker
who I knew struggled physically and emotionally. However, she was not given the
support she should have been given by Child Protection when she worked there.
This worker ended up leaving Child Protection.
I found out later that she
took Child Protection to Court, and to my surprise, she actually won her case.
The outcome of the court case was Child Protection was required to pay for the
worker’s ongoing financial support in relation to her physical and emotional
well-being for the rest of her life, unless it was deemed that it was no longer
required. I’m guessing Child Protection was not too happy about that.
When you feel defeated, that’s the time to stand up
and let your voice be heard.
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AUTHOR Bio and Links:
The
life of Jo Cooling is like living in a theme park: one minute, it's like riding
a roller coaster, baking cupcakes, cookies, and slices. With a kitchen covered
with chocolate, flour, and cooking utensils. Also trying to develop new tastes
and ideas for her growing baking business.
Sometimes,
she feels like she travels through life in a Dodge 'em car. All the while, she
works to complete two novels while caring for two Cavoodles, who believe their
mother was placed on this earth purely to play with them 24 hours a day.
But
no matter how out of control her life can be at times, eventually, she ends up
sailing around on the Walt Disney teacup ride on top of the world. However,
when she relaxes, the Cavoodles see this as an opportunity to snuggle on Mum's
lap.
Jo's
work career has been just as colorful as her current life. She has worked in
horse and car racing, sold lingerie, designed websites, been a Personal
Assistant, and worked as a Law Clerk.
Jo
looks at life like a box of chocolates: each day unwraps a new layer, revealing
unexpected flavors and textures.
CONNECT
WITH Jo Cooling
WEBSITE:
jocooling.com
INSTAGRAM:
@jocoolingauthor
PURCHASE
LINKS Child Protection Behind Closed Doors
AMAZON.COM:
https://amazon.com/dp/1779418698
AMAZON.AU:
https://amazon.com.au/dp/1779418698
INDIGO
CHAPTERS:
https://www.indigo.ca/en-ca/child-protection-behind-closed-doors/9781779418692.html
BOOKTOPIA:
https://www.booktopia.com.au/search.ep?keywords=9781779418692
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GIVEAWAY
The author will be awarding a $10 Amazon/BN gift card to a randomly drawn winner.
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